Wednesday, February 20, 2019

Wednesday's Word of the Week.

Hey Peeps!  Happy Wednesday, It's Queen She here known as me! and I have with me a new word to share for the week.

CYNICAL
cyn·i·cal
adjective


believing that people are motivated by self-interest; distrustful of human sincerity or integrity.

synonyms: skeptical, doubtful, distrustful, unbelieving

-Google Dictionary


Thursday, February 7, 2019

Emptying A Full Self. If I

Remember in the beginning I told you from time to time I will empty myself, this is one of those times.  Listen up.


"Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap." Galatians 6:7 King James Version (KJV)
If I.
If I smile at you, please acknowledge the kind gesture, and smile back
If I say hello, please be cordial in return
If I make you feel loved, please reciprocate the feeling
If I trust you, trust that I have your very best interest at heart, please do the same for me
If I make you feel safe, once you’ve regained your strength, please be a thorn of protection for me
If I bring you joy, please lighten my dull days with laughter
If I am compassionate towards you, please remember me in my time of need
If I show you tenderness, please wrap me in warmth when needed
If I understand you, please listen and learn who I am so that you understand me as well
If I am thoughtful towards you, please think of me from time to time
If I show you desire, please ignite my inner soul with the same
If I attempt to teach you something, please don’t be offended, accept it, and in return teach me something
If I. 
If I.

Wednesday, February 6, 2019

Wednesday's Word of the Week!

Happy Wednesday Diva's and Gents!  Queen She known as Me here with Wednesday's Word of the Week.


Capricious

ca·pri·cious

Adjective

Used to describe a person or something that’s impulsive, and unpredictable

Given to sudden and unaccountable changes of mood or behavior-Google

Synonyms: inconstant, fickle, unstable
-Merriam-Webster



Wednesday, January 30, 2019

Wednesday's Word of the Week!



It's Queen She known as Me here and I'm bringing with me the Wednesday Word of the Week.



BYPASS

by·​pass 
verb

go past or around.  To avoid something unpleasant or laborious


synonyms: go around, go pat, make a detour, avoid


-Google Dictionary

Monday, January 28, 2019

Developing Your Best Self

"I am a woman of substance.  Success is not withheld from me. I am strong and built to succeed." – The Holy Spirit

A mantra.  A word, a sound, a phrase repeated to aid in concentration during meditation.  An affirmation to motivate and inspire you to be your best self.  Used to provide encouragement when you need to focus your mind to achieve a goal.  The statement above, that’s my mantra.  

Even though mantras have been around for at least 3,000 years, in present day we see them everywhere; on social media with the famous hash tag on Instagram, we pin them to Pinterest, or even in songs like Toni Braxton’s Let it flow, where she tells us to “Just let go and let it flow” (I’ve used this one so many times in the last 20 +/- years).

Happy Black Woman founder Rosetta Thurman introduced me to mantras and how effective they can be in my everyday life.  In 2011, I did her 31-day Reset Your Life program and one of the assignments given, in fact the first assignment given, was to create a mantra.  Changed my mindset so much that every year, I encourage myself to create a new one.  Why not? We can evolve! (but that’s another blog for another day).

Studies have shown that when we are feeling overwhelmed and flooded with thoughts of every kind, repeating a mantra can help bring about very real change in our mindsets and everyday lives.  In the world we live in today, stereotyping and mental disorders of all kind are present, front and center, every day and are attaching themselves to or attacking people’s though process.  Constantly.  It’s good to have mantras as a way of kicking negativity out of the psyche or simply changing an unwanted aura. We may not be able to control the situations that surround us all the time, but we can control ourselves and how we respond. It’s not always easy, but it’s doable.

Share! Drop your mantra below in the comments and let us know how it helps you. If you haven’t gotten one yet, get busy! Start the process to creating the mindset you want to have.  Happy creating.

Wednesday, January 23, 2019

Wednesday's Word of the Week

Hey Peeps! Queen She known as me here with my Wednesday word of the week.

BENEVOLENT
be·nev·o·lent
adjective

well meaning and kindly.
"a benevolent smile"

(of an organization) serving a charitable rather than a profit-making purpose.
"a benevolent fund"

synonyms: charitable, non-profit-making, nonprofit, not-for-profit

-Google Dictionary

Wednesday, January 16, 2019

Wednesday's Word of the Week



Hey Queen She known as me here with my Wednesday word of the week.



AMBIGUOUS


am·big·u·ous
Adjective

(of language) open to more than one interpretation; having a double meaning.
"the question is rather ambiguous“

unclear or inexact because a choice between alternatives has not been made.
"this whole society is morally ambiguous“

Synonyms: equivocal, ambivalent, open to debate

-Google Dictionary