Thursday, April 25, 2019

What Happens When You Smile

Did you know your smile has health benefits?  Like magic? it does; even when you smile at the person who's rude to you, or when you smile at the grumpy person who doesn't like you and never smiles or speaks back.  You are helping yourself out while attempting to make someone else's day.  Or maybe you're just a nice person and your smile is the best accessory you have; if it is, you're awesome, and you're helping yourself as well by sharing that smile.

There's a blog called The Best Brain Possible with Debbie Hampton that talks about the proven benefits of a smile; how a simple smile can benefit your brain and your body.  Don't believe it?  check it out.  Let me know in the comments below what you think after reading this.  Are you going to keep smiling?  I am, and if I smile at you, smile back!




Wednesday, April 24, 2019

Wednesday's Words of the Week!

Hey Ya’ll!  Queen She known as Me here with three Wednesday Words of the Week.  Things like Spring Break and unexpected life events have happened, as they are supposed to, and I’ve gotten a bit behind.  Like I stated earlier in the year, I’m gonna learn these words!  All 52 of em! So sit tight, hold on and take a look at my list of “learn em” words for this week.


Fortitude
for·ti·tude
noun
courage in pain or adversity.
synonyms: courage, bravery, strength of mind, strength of character

Gallivant
gal·li·vant
verb
go around from one place to another in the pursuit of pleasure or entertainment.
synonyms: flit, jaunt, run, roam, wonder, travel

Guise
guise
noun
an external form, appearance, or manner of presentation, typically concealing the true nature of something.
synonyms: likeness, external appearance

definitions from www.google.com

Tuesday, April 16, 2019

What I Love Doing on a Friday Night

"But I'm gonna [ you know the rest] cause it's Friday, you ain't got no job and you ain't got shit to do."-Smokey from Friday

Hey Diva's and Gents, it Queen She known as Me here and I want to let you know what I love doing on a Friday night.  Let me mention it's definitely not what Smokey had in mind for Craig in the movie Friday, but there are some things that I like and look forward to doing and they are:

1. If I have no plans, cook a Friday night meal; fish and hush puppies, love it.

2. Pop a cork on a bottle of wine. 

3. UBER out to my neighborhood Mexican restaurant-Huey Luey's Mexican Kitchen & Margarita Bar, no need to explain why I like to UBER here!

4. Bubble bath, and mini spa time.  Do a facial, pedicure, and some tub relaxation

5. Binge watch my favorite shows

These are just a few of my favs to do on Friday's, what's yours?  drop me some ideas down below, inspire me!


Wednesday, April 10, 2019

Wednesday's Word of the Week!

Queen She known as Me here and I'm hoping your Wednesday is going well, plus I got the Word of the week!

Fervent

fer·vent

adjective

having or displaying a passionate intensity.

synonyms: passionate, intense, sincere, feeling, profound, animated, spirited

www.google.com

Monday, April 1, 2019

Five Ways to Wind Down and Destress

Diva's and Gents!  Hey ya'll! I hope you're as beautiful as ever on this first day of April.

I was fortunate enough to be in the company of several friends this past weekend and one of the things discussed was ways to wind down.  

I shared that after hitting the job grind daily, most of us have other things, or responsibilities that feel more stressful than the job we just left, and sometimes even though our heads hit the pillow, our brains just won't shut off.  It wants to be twins with the Duracell bunny and keep going and going.  It wants to tell us how to do things like complete future pressing issues and tasks. It knows it should be resting or winding down, however it wants to elude deep and invasive sleep.  uugh.  However I have been trying to come up with some "me time" routines, and one of them is my "before bed to help me sleep better" routine.

I started earlier this year trying to combat rest thieves.  Here are five ideas that I've found useful in helping me to wind down.

1. I set aside thirty minutes to an hour before my actual bed time to start to wind down.  This gives me time to surf the net, social media, read or make those last minute phone calls.  This helps me release some of what's rumbling around in my mind.

2. Brew some tea.  One great benefit of Chamomile tea consumption is the powerful ability of its ingredients to aid in relaxation, and it taste good too!  I can sometimes feel my eyelids getting heavy after I ingest a good amount of it.

3. Develop and then utilize mindfulness bedtime exercises.  These include dimming the lights in my bedroom (even the lights on the cell and other electronics), my breathing exercises, and my praying/meditation.

4. I stopped trying to fall asleep, and instead I just relax.  If I forced it, I end up adding stress to my list of ailments.  Don't need that.  Just try and relax. and before you know it, you're in la-la land, at least I am.

5. Aromatherapy using linen sprays.  Company's sell linen sprays is several scents; petitgrain, chamomile, geranium, sandalwood rose, and lavender.  I DIY linen spray, it's very easy.  I take distilled water, add it into my 1 ounce blue spray bottle and add 10 drops of lavender oil, shake it and use it at night time to spray down the bed, the pillows and I spray some in the air.  I love it, and it works well for me.

If you have any suggestions, please drop them down below and share.  You know we're all about sharing here! Let's help everybody wind down!