Showing posts with label Happy Black Woman. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Happy Black Woman. Show all posts

Monday, January 28, 2019

Developing Your Best Self

"I am a woman of substance.  Success is not withheld from me. I am strong and built to succeed." – The Holy Spirit

A mantra.  A word, a sound, a phrase repeated to aid in concentration during meditation.  An affirmation to motivate and inspire you to be your best self.  Used to provide encouragement when you need to focus your mind to achieve a goal.  The statement above, that’s my mantra.  

Even though mantras have been around for at least 3,000 years, in present day we see them everywhere; on social media with the famous hash tag on Instagram, we pin them to Pinterest, or even in songs like Toni Braxton’s Let it flow, where she tells us to “Just let go and let it flow” (I’ve used this one so many times in the last 20 +/- years).

Happy Black Woman founder Rosetta Thurman introduced me to mantras and how effective they can be in my everyday life.  In 2011, I did her 31-day Reset Your Life program and one of the assignments given, in fact the first assignment given, was to create a mantra.  Changed my mindset so much that every year, I encourage myself to create a new one.  Why not? We can evolve! (but that’s another blog for another day).

Studies have shown that when we are feeling overwhelmed and flooded with thoughts of every kind, repeating a mantra can help bring about very real change in our mindsets and everyday lives.  In the world we live in today, stereotyping and mental disorders of all kind are present, front and center, every day and are attaching themselves to or attacking people’s though process.  Constantly.  It’s good to have mantras as a way of kicking negativity out of the psyche or simply changing an unwanted aura. We may not be able to control the situations that surround us all the time, but we can control ourselves and how we respond. It’s not always easy, but it’s doable.

Share! Drop your mantra below in the comments and let us know how it helps you. If you haven’t gotten one yet, get busy! Start the process to creating the mindset you want to have.  Happy creating.

Monday, February 5, 2018

Read, Read, Read. A Blog Sharing Post.

Hey Huns!  Queen She known as me here, and I’m a Diva Journaler,  jotting down everythang!

I’m an avid reader.  Reading takes me to a place of peace and tranquility, it relaxes me beyond relief.  Sometimes when I’m having trouble focusing or I become overwhelmed, I change directions,  hone in on a blog, a magazine, newspaper, or anything I can get my hands on and it helps me come back to center; I  feel calm, settled, and stressed free.  According to The Telegraph , “Psychologists believe this is because the human mind has to concentrate on reading and the distraction of being taken into a literary world eases the tensions in muscles and the heart.”  Well I definitely believe that to be true.

On my spazz out journeys (LOL) I come across so many great blogs (I wish I could share them all but I can’t, way too many!)  I want to drop a few of them on here; its’ so hard to narrow them down to four, but if you yourself are a blogger, you’ve probably seen these and more.  Please share some interesting ones you’ve come across, and let’s keep reading!

Also the image below, I borrowed from HTSABO, How To Start A Blog Online. Richard Goodwin  shared a remarkable guide, with a wealth of information on the how too's of and the pitfalls to starting a blog.  There's a link below the image to this great tool in case you're wanting to start you're own blog. How bout it?  I bet you could.  If you do, please send me the link.  I'm always excited to read.

Advanced Style by photographer and Author Ari Seth Cohen

Confessions of a Clean Foodie  by a recipe creator, photographer and blogger named Charlotte, from Minneapolis, MN

Style at a Certain Age a fashion and lifestyle blog by Beth Djalali

Happy Black Woman – by mindset coach, author, speaker and business mentor Rosetta Thurman