Monday, April 1, 2019

Five Ways to Wind Down and Destress

Diva's and Gents!  Hey ya'll! I hope you're as beautiful as ever on this first day of April.

I was fortunate enough to be in the company of several friends this past weekend and one of the things discussed was ways to wind down.  

I shared that after hitting the job grind daily, most of us have other things, or responsibilities that feel more stressful than the job we just left, and sometimes even though our heads hit the pillow, our brains just won't shut off.  It wants to be twins with the Duracell bunny and keep going and going.  It wants to tell us how to do things like complete future pressing issues and tasks. It knows it should be resting or winding down, however it wants to elude deep and invasive sleep.  uugh.  However I have been trying to come up with some "me time" routines, and one of them is my "before bed to help me sleep better" routine.

I started earlier this year trying to combat rest thieves.  Here are five ideas that I've found useful in helping me to wind down.

1. I set aside thirty minutes to an hour before my actual bed time to start to wind down.  This gives me time to surf the net, social media, read or make those last minute phone calls.  This helps me release some of what's rumbling around in my mind.

2. Brew some tea.  One great benefit of Chamomile tea consumption is the powerful ability of its ingredients to aid in relaxation, and it taste good too!  I can sometimes feel my eyelids getting heavy after I ingest a good amount of it.

3. Develop and then utilize mindfulness bedtime exercises.  These include dimming the lights in my bedroom (even the lights on the cell and other electronics), my breathing exercises, and my praying/meditation.

4. I stopped trying to fall asleep, and instead I just relax.  If I forced it, I end up adding stress to my list of ailments.  Don't need that.  Just try and relax. and before you know it, you're in la-la land, at least I am.

5. Aromatherapy using linen sprays.  Company's sell linen sprays is several scents; petitgrain, chamomile, geranium, sandalwood rose, and lavender.  I DIY linen spray, it's very easy.  I take distilled water, add it into my 1 ounce blue spray bottle and add 10 drops of lavender oil, shake it and use it at night time to spray down the bed, the pillows and I spray some in the air.  I love it, and it works well for me.

If you have any suggestions, please drop them down below and share.  You know we're all about sharing here! Let's help everybody wind down!

 

Wednesday, March 27, 2019

Wednesday's Word of the Week!

Peeps!  It's me Queen She, here with Wednesday's Word of the week.

Esoteric

es·o·ter·ic

adjective

Intended for or likely to be understood by only a small number of people with a specialized knowledge or interest.

Synonyms: obscure, perplexing, complex

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Monday, March 25, 2019

Find Me Elsewhere; My favorite places to hang out on social media


Hey Peeps!  Queen She known as me here, hoping you’re having the most wonderful day ever.  

In the evening after the house is all quiet, and I’m all comfortable, there are several places on social media that I hit every night.  Yup, your girl’s an Instagram and YouTube junkie!  I can say this though!  I don’t just go to my favorite places and look at their content, I will click that like button and let em know I’ve been by for the day, that I support, and you know what?  they never disappoint.

So! any time after 9:30 pm you can find me elsewhere, at one of these locations on one of these pages:

Juhahn Jones on Instagram
Desi Banks - Iamdesibanks on Instagram and YouTube
Myron Jewell – Cheatingassmyron on Instagram
Christianee Porter – thechristishow on Instagram and YouTube
Donovan Weatherspoon – 2realmacdatfee on Instagram
Kaitlyn Leonard – fit.mom.kaitlyn on Instagram
Erin Wells – That Choclate Vegan on YouTube
Kim, - The Chic Natural on YouTube and Instagram

I can’t be the only one who lives vicariously through someone else in the evening times, you do it too! Drop a comment below and let me know where I can find you most nights when you’re winding down.

Wednesday, March 20, 2019

Wednesday's Word of the Week!

Hey Peeps!  It's me Queen She known as me here with Wednesday's Word of the Week.  


Empathy

em·​pa·​thy

noun

the ability to understand and share the feelings of another.

Synonyms: rapport with, sympathy with, understanding of, fellowship with


Monday, March 18, 2019

Loving Her.

Today, we're emptying the mind tank, and a message of self love is pouring out.  


LOVING HER

Be observant of the love you give yourself today; so that when you’re older it will be generous enough.

Be cautious of the love you allow others to give to you; make sure it’s substantial enough.

Be thoughtful of the love you give to others; you want it to yield significant returns.

Be prudent of the love you speak of with others; jealously can be undetectable, and bring about sizable problems.

Be vigilant in the love you allow others to teach your children; it can have extensive consequences.

Be. But while you are being, be mindful of who you’re becoming; be able to live with her.  Be able to look at her in the mirror in twenty years.  Be able to just be, knowing that all the while, you were loving her, the best way you could.



Wednesday, March 6, 2019

Wednesday's Word of the Week!

God morning, good morning, good morning to you!  It's Queen She known as me here with Wednesday's Word of the Week, and it's not just a word of the week, but two! Business has crossed the line into journaling and I've fallen a little behind; but my intention was to learn 52 new words this year, and my golly I intend to do just that!  So help me if you will!


Disposition
dis·po·si·tion
noun
a person's inherent (natural or built-in) qualities of mind and character

synonyms: intrinsic, innate, immanent,inborn, ingrained, deep-rooted


Dubious
du·bi·ous
adjective
hesitating or doubting, not to be relied upon

synonyms: suspicious, suspect, under suspicion, untrustworthy, unreliable

Monday, March 4, 2019

GIRL POWER.

If I could have witnessed an event in history I think it would’ve been in 2003 when Business Insider reported Oprah Winfrey had become the first female African American billionaire. 

Why I chose this event? Girl Power, that’s why.  Point blank period.

People have deemed Oprah to be the most influential woman in the world, not in the country, but in the world. Girl Power.  She’s a media mogul, the first African American to own a large studio (Girl -Girl power) She has been ranked the greatest black philanthropist in American history. She.  Some more Girl Power. Even though she obviously owns the bank! (super Girl Power) and has many, many, many more astounding accomplishments, Oprah’s goals have always been to inspire and motivate others.  Madd Girl Power.

I bet there have been many naysayers, critics, some haters along her path.  I would’ve loved to witness the look on the faces.  Just so they’d know that what is for you, is for you, and what is intended for someone else, is intended for someone else. Just because people say so, or are not happy with themselves or anything else in this world, skepticism and criticism of others will not stop the success train if it is intended to be on the tracks.

Girl Power.  If we women would unite and stand together with and for each other, what a wonderful world... this would be.  


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